#WHATIF YOU FOUND A WAY TO TRULY FORGIVE..

#WHATIF YOU FOUND A WAY TO TRULY FORGIVE..

And sweetheart I am not just talking about forgiving others.
I am full blown talking about forgiving yourself.

Because SWEETHEART isn’t it time to experience what true emotional freedom feels like so you can live life as your MOST delicious and truest version.

I mean come on.
How much longer are you going to stay in that space of judging yourself. and feeling like shit about things you can not change?
or even worse, lock yourself away in a emotional prison “TRYING” to ignore what happened, so it manifests within you creating even more suffering.

You see honey after years of living in this space myself.
Where I was doing life so unconsciously.
I was Self-loathing.
I was always in Self doubt
And I was Self abusing more often that i could count through my thoughts and actions.
SOOO BELIEVE IT I GET IT.
The negative self talk.
The constant battle of beliefs that your not worthy.
The pain living in regret.
The disappointment of making a decision to do something that initially you knew you shouldn’t do.

See here’s the thing.
It is only when you are able to give yourself unqualified approval. By developing greater self-compassion and focusing much more on your positives than negatives. Can you at last forgive yourself for your faults, as well as relinquish your need for others’ approval.

It is only then that you can start to unravel the layers of beliefs you have created in your sub conscious that do not serve you and create new beliefs that WILL serve you for your greatest good.

It is only then, that honey.
YOU can start to shine your light as YOU.
Authentically
Congruently and
Sacredly unapologetically.

SO HONEY
#whatif you found a way to TRULY forgive yourself.
#whatif you could stop beating yourself up everyday.
#whatif you actually asked for support.
#whatif you decided to trust that you are no longer defined by your past.
#whataif you went there and used your imagination again about what is really possible.
#whatif you let go of the judgment and suffering you put yourself through every day.

WHATIF?
WHATIF?
WHATIF?

Don’t you see,
in order to shift the heaviness.
All it takes is a honest moment with yourself that you are so much more than worthy.
All it takes is a moment to say YES its ok.
Change can happen that quick!
Change can happen in an instant.
You baby are the one who decides.

So why not decide right now to transform your fundamental sense of who you are. (And you may need to remind yourselves that our various weaknesses are part of what makes you human AF). and choosing unconditional self-acceptance, where you take pride in EVERYTHING you are. even your imperfections. After all, were we beyond criticism in the first place, we’d never have the opportunity to rise to this uniquely human challenge.

It is No doubt you have made mistakes. But then honey, so has everybody else.

Love Marissa xxx

PS. you are not alone. You’ve got this. You deserve this.
and know that I am excited to see more of you and
I am here holding space for you.